Dad’s out there. Do you carry pictures of your kids in your wallet? Does anyone my age or younger do this? Do you even print photos of your kids at all?
There is a good chance that you don’t. I print very few. This of course does not mean I don’t have any. In fact I have taken thousands of photos of my son since he was born.
So where do these photos end up if not in my wallet. Facebook of course. Facebook is a great way to keep friends and family up to speed with the boy and his adventures. Posting photos and notes about my cute kid is like writing a holiday brag letter everyday.
You can spend hours scrolling through Facebook and what you see is a snapshot of your friends and families. You see pictures of them all smiling, holding each other, all dressed in matching plaid out in a field somewhere. You read about what cute, smart or cleaver thing their toddler did today. You see photos of kids being happy and good in a big clean house. You see all of this and you think to yourself “I’m doing it wrong”.
It’s important to see Facebook for what it is; a highlights real. It shows the bests plays of the game while ignoring all the dropped passes and missed tackles.
It is too easy to get lost in seeing only perfect parents. They are posting precious moments of when their child first walks, but also remember that there are plenty they aren’t publishing. You’re not going to see a photos of a messy house or a blown out diaper that was on too long. You also aren’t going to read posts about how parents argued in front of their baby or that they gave in and let their 4-year-old have cookies for breakfast.
No one is perfect, despite what get’s put on social media. If you’re putting a roof over your kids head, food on their table and they are happy to see you when you walk in the door, then you are doing a good job. Remember that while surfing the social media scene.